Month: March 2012

  • 破爛的廣東話

    我剛用我破爛的廣東話跑了我們這一棟樓的十二戶住戶

    一家一家敲門

    因為整棟樓的水費沒付

    因為大部分的人都覺得一樓餐廳的人應該用最多要付

    結果餐廳又拒絕付說這是住戶的問題

    搞的我家沒水沖馬桶

    反正就是鬧的很不愉快

    Christine 又要來住兩個禮拜

    我總不能讓她沒水可以用吧

    我把全部付清

    一家一家解釋要求分攤

    有些人很爽快 馬上給我現金

    有些人竟然甩門不理我 真沒品

    我不是介意錢的事

    可是大家都住這裡

    應該有點公德心吧

    這就是住沒有房東沒有管理員的房子的下場

    bitter

  • 誰的肩膀借我靠一下

    誰的手臂借我垂一下

    誰可以讓我好好哭一下

     

  • 傻傻分不清楚

    1) 我最愛的舒琪小姐被網路BULLYING

    她一口氣刪掉一百多篇文章退出微博

    只因一些很無聊的人又把她以前的裸照貼出來

    太狠心了吧

    她很善良路見不平卻被這樣對待

    希望她不會消失太久 我喜歡看她的UPDATE

     

    2) 我拿到成績了

    我發現我考99分的那一刻

    我真的掉了一滴眼淚 

    一抹感動只因為我的努力有那麼一點肯定

    滴完一滴眼淚很方便 因為不用用衛生紙

    幾秒之後又繼續與寫不完的報告奮鬥

    人生到底是為何?

     

    3) 每天都是分秒必爭

    我有時覺得我心臟快要停了

    怎麼可以跳那麼快

    好像有做CARDIO跑200 BPM 

    還是咖啡喝太多

    傻傻分不清楚

     

     

     

     

     

  • complain-ing?

    given the last entry, i really should not complain right now.

    i have been in the office for…14 hours, practically the entire weekend and i still don’t see the end.

    except everything is due on Wed and might just, EXPLODE in my face.

    i need one of those empty canyon areas so i can scream and hear my echo and feel better.

    but, i cannot even let my guard down nor hint @ the slightest inkling of disgruntled-ness or fatigue or hint of failure. 

    i need to will myself to be upbeat, optimistic or it will spread like a zombie contagion… people can always smell it if they know you don’t believe you can do it. 

    besides,

    it was my idea that led to us *us* being 7 people around the world, who all have to sit here after hours in the second place.

    i say in the second place because in the first place everyone agreed when we had discussed it!!!

    i don’t dare call my team members right now, they prob hate me ALOT right now… the only person who doesn’t hate me is still sleeping… go figure…

    you can do this, just deep breathe…and, Take 3, ACTION!


     

  • 15 Things to Give Up to be Happier

    15 Things to Give Up to be Happier

    Here is a list of 15 things, which, if you give up on them, will make your life a lot easier, and much more happier. We are holding on to so many things that are causing us a great deal of pain, stress and suffering, and instead of letting them all go, instead of allowing ourselves to be stress free and happy, we cling on to them, but not anymore. Starting today we will give up on all those things that no longer serve us, and we will embrace change. So here we go:

    1. Give up your need to always be right. There are so many of us can’t stand the idea of being wrong, wanting to always be right, even at the risk of ending great relationships or causing a great deal of stress and pain, for them and for others. It’s just not worth it. Whenever you feel the “urgent” need to jump into a fight over who is right and who is wrong, ask yourself this question: “Would I rather be right, or would I  rather be kind?” Wayne Dyer. What difference will that even make? Is your ego really that big?

    2. Give up your need for control. Be willing to give up your need to always control everything that happens to you and around you, situations, events, people, etc., whether they are loved ones, coworkers, or just strangers you meet on the street, and just allow them to be. Allow everything and everyone to be just as they are and you will see how much better will that make you feel.

    “By letting it go it all gets done. The world is won by those who let it go. But when you try and try. The world is beyond the winning.” Lao Tzu

    3. Give up on blame. Give up on your need to blame others for what you have or what you don’t have; for what you feel or what you don’t feel. Stop giving your powers away and start taking responsibility for your life.

    4. Give up your self defeating self talk. Oh my. How many people are hurting themselves because of their horrible, negative, polluted, repetitive and self defeating self talk? Don’t believe everything that your mind is telling you, especially if it’s negative and self defeating.

    “The mind is a superb instrument if used rightly. Used wrongly, however, it becomes very destructive.”Eckhart Tolle

    5. Give up your limiting beliefs about what you can or cannot do, about what is possible or impossible. From now on you are no longer going to allow your limiting beliefs to keep you in place, to keep you stuck. Spread your wings and fly!

    “A belief is not an idea held by the mind, it is an idea that holds the mind” Elly Roselle

    6. Give up complaining. Give up your constant need to complain about those many, many, maaany things, people, situations, events, that make you unhappy, sad, blues, depressed, and so on. Nobody can make you unhappy, no situation can make you sad, miserable, depressed, mad, angry, etc. , unless you allow it too. It’s not the situation that triggers those feelings in you, but how you choose to look at it, your attitude. Doesn’t that make you feel a lot better now? More powerful and in control?

    7. Give up the luxury of criticism. Give up your need to criticize things, events, people that are different than you. We are all different but we are all the same. We all want to be happy, we all want to love and be loved, we all want to be understood… We all want something, and that something is wished by us all.

    8. Give up your need to impress others. Stop trying so hard to be something that you’re not, just so you can make others like you. It doesn’t work this way. The moment you stop trying so hard to be something that you’re not, the moment you take of all your masks, the moment you accept and embrace the real you, people will be drawn to you, effortlessly.

    9. Give up your resistance to change. Change is good. Change will help you move from A to B. Change will help you make improvements on your life and also of those around you. Follow your bliss, embrace change, don’t resist it.

    “Follow your bliss and the universe will open doors for you where there were only walls” Joseph Campbell

    10. Give up labels. Stop labeling those things, people, events that you don’t understand as being WEIRD and try opening your mind, little by little. You know, minds only work if open. “The highest form of ignorance is when you reject something you don’t know anything about.” Wayne Dyer

    11. Give up on your fears. Fear is just an illusion, it doesn’t exit, you created it. It’s all in your mind. Correct the inside and the outside will fall into places.

    “The only fear you should fear is fear itself.” Franklin D. Roosevelt

    12. Give up your excuses. Send them away. Tell them they’re fired. You no longer need them. A lot of times we limit ourselves because of the many excuses we use, and instead of growing and working on improving ourselves and our lives, we get stuck, lying to ourselves, using all kind of excuses, excuses that 99.9% of the time are not even real. 

    13. Give up the past. I know, I know. It’s hard, so hard, especially when the past looks so much better than the present moment and the futures looks so frightening, but you have to take into consideration the fact that the present moment is all that you have, all that you had and all that you will ever have. The past you are now longing for, the past that you are now dreaming about, was ignored by you when it was present, so stop deluding yourself. Be present in everything you do and enjoy life.Life is a journey, not a destination. Have a clear vision for the future, prepare yourself, but always be present in the now.

    14. Give up attachment. This is a concept that, for most of us is so hard to grasp and I have to tell you that it was for me too, and it still is, but it’s not something that is impossible. You get better and better at it in time, by practicing… The moment you detach yourself from all things, and that doesn’t mean you give up your love for them, because love and attachment have nothing to do with one another ( attachment comes from a place of fear, while love… well, real love is pure, kind, and self less. Where there is love there can’t be fear, and because of that, attachment and love cannot coexist) you become so peaceful, so tolerant, so kind, and serene. You will get to a place where you will be able to understand all things, without even trying too. Such a precious thing. A state beyond words.

    15. Give up living your life to other people’s expectations. Way too many people are living a life that is not theirs. They live their lives according to what others think is best for them, they live their lives according to what their parents think is best for them, to what their friends, their enemies and their teachers, their government, the media, etc. think is best for them, and they ignore their inner voice, that inner calling. They are so busy with pleasing everybody, with living up to other people’s expectations, that they lose control over their lives, they forget what makes them happy, they forget what they want, what they need… and eventually, they forget about themselves, they forget who they are.  You have one life, this life, the only life, live it, own it, and don’t let other people’s good opinion distract you from your path.

  • yeesh

    i was in a heated discussion w a client over an market entry strategy.

    i was polite but very adamant. 

    finally he said “i’m the customer here, are you challenging me?”

    i said “yes, i am. because you don’t pay me to do what you tell me to do. you pay me to think on my own.”

    he laughed and we agreed to disagree and do two versions and ask for wider feedback.

    more work on my part, but i stand resolute.

    the worst case is that i waste a few hours of my time. the best case is that it generates the wider effect that i want.

    a gamble perhaps? or a learning process? 

    it’s a 2:25pm on a saturday and i am mentally drained already. some gym time + some coffee please!

     

     

  • 自找麻煩

    我跟我一個男同事看電影

    他一直拿手機出來玩

    白光一直讓我無法專心

    我就白他一眼 他把手機收起來

    五分鐘之後 又拿出來玩

    我輕輕跟他說 ㄟ很亮ㄝ 

    他又收起來

    又過幾分鐘

    他拿外套稍微蓋了一下還是繼續玩

    電影結束後我問他說 ㄟ你事業做很大喔 手機不能停喔

    他說

    我在跟我老婆解釋說我跟妳看電影而已不是偷吃她在抓狂

    結果就是 我還得跟他老婆打一通電話親自解釋我不是甚麼外面的女人

    天啊

    我不要找已婚男士當朋友了

    自找麻煩

  • Status

    • I’m making a note here that I’m on my 7th company sponsored Blackberry since starting work in 2006. 7 devices in 6 years. 
    • Wow, I’m really not a cadet case anymore! 4.5 years in the work force! 
    • I made 4-Cheese Tagliatelle and Spinach salad last night, it tasted deliciously awesome. 
    • I have had NO social life for 2 weeks. I’ve had weekend meeting/project work PACKED. The only me-time I squeeze in is for the gym and grocery shopping.  
    • I have a new work project in Shanghai, need to do alot of due diligence work. Yay! I like DD! I find it to be thrilling! 
    • All in all, quite happy with life and what is has in store for me in 2012. Everything is going smoothly and better than I could ever expect!

  • 我叫王千芸

    八歲時上中文學校時老師問我們名字的意義

    有人說媽媽希望他長大可以成大業

    因此取名黃豐國

    有人說爸爸希望他很會唸書

    取名周學博

    輪到我時我說

    我叫王千芸

    千…因為祖譜沒得選

    芸…因為”芸芸眾生” 希望我跟大家都一樣平凡

    老師愣住

    哈哈哈

    老師跟媽媽說我的答案

    回家還被罵一頓

    到現在我還是不清楚

    我的名字到底是什麼意義

    筆劃少好寫吧!!!

  • 無價

    昨天跟我的好友聊天到深夜4am…

    好久沒有 such enlightening conversation.

    我們的想法很不同…卻也因此擦出不同的火花~

    今早醒來還回味無窮

    暗自竊笑

    當你沒有愛情時

    友情也是很無價的

    那曖昧的友情是不是更無價?

    雖沒睡太飽

    星期六早上約客戶吃早餐談事

    可因昨天去按摩時昏迷很久

    所以精神還不賴

    今天心情無比好!!!